Understanding Lilith: From first human to first monster

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There is a stigma associated with seeking out and approaching Lilith. Puritanical voices in the magical community often suggest that working with her is unbecoming.

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It’s true that the Internet is full of articles explaining how to obtain sexual favours from the children of this dark goddess, the incubi and succubi, and that gaining an imaginary playmate is as far as most magicians will choose to go.

However, in doing so, they miss the fact that Lilith’s burning sexuality is but a means to an end, and one that hints at a deeper current of self determination through pleasure.

Introduction to Lilith

Unlike many who choose to seek out this darkest of goddesses, my motivation was not just sexual. Exploring Lilith’s carnal associations did neatly counterbalance my own lack of confidence, but it was actually Lilith’s more rebellious aspects that convinced me that I should try and make contact with her.

My path to enlightenment was already a strange one long before we began working together. I grew up in an overtly agnostic household, and there were few of the barriers put upon my reading, such as that those who had a more religious upbringing might encounter. Yet, for all this freedom, I soon realized that reality was unfathomably dull, and I sought to see how far I could bend it towards something more interesting through sheer willpower.

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Lilith’s story

In Lilith I recognised a spirit who experienced this same dissatisfaction. As the first wife of Adam, she had refused to lie beneath him during intercourse, and she cited their similar origins as proof of her equality.

Retreating from Eden to the banks of the Red Sea, Lilith sought out the companionship of either Asmodeus or Samael, depending on the legend, and bore them the very same children who become the incubi and succubi of medieval myth.

Sadly, this carnal union did not to end well, as her former lover had called upon his God to bring her back to the garden, and angels were dispatched to enforce these demands. Again she stood up to patriarchal authority, and as punishment, was forced to watch as hundreds of her offspring were murdered each and every day.

It seems that Lilith had fallen afoul of the same misogyny which has always typified the attitude of Abrahamic religions towards unashamed femininity, and her apocryphal fall from grace would cement this into the cultural consciousness for centuries to come.

Her mythology began to grow. Some tales name her as the serpent, tempting Eve to take a bite of the fruit of knowledge as vengeance for her excommunication, which damns humanity in retaliation for the continued slaughter of her own offspring. Others cast Samael and Lilith as a counter creation to that of Adam and Eve, a hermaphroditic genesis required to balance the divine and infernal forces in the material and spiritual realms respectively.

Of course, Lilith originally belongs to a vibrant body of ancient Middle-Eastern folklore now mostly lost. What little is known of her earlier incarnations seems to indicate a similar preoccupation with sex and mysticism, though there are disputes her role as one of the first humans.

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Lilith and magick

She is mentioned on Babylonian amulets and charms relating to pregnancy, reinforcing the prevailing idea that she must be held at bay for the child to survive, and as a thief of both semen and life force.

We also see her mentioned as a spirit who was forced out from her home and into the desert by the Sumerian hero Gilgamesh at Inanna‘s request, and sadly this outcast aspect seems to have become a prevailing theme in the centuries that followed.

Perhaps it is here that the seeds which would lead to Lilith’s modern crossover into vampirism were first planted, while her position as a mythological figure from the very dawn of civilization would automatically promote her to queen among such lesser spirits too.

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Lilith’s monsters: Incubi and succubi

It is safe to assume that Lilith has always been an adversarial entity, a dark mother to the numerous monsters that haunt our collective nightmares, and as such is it little wonder that those with an interest in pushing the boundaries of what is acceptable would be drawn into her cold embrace. But she does not stand alone in her rebellion. As previously mentioned, initial efforts to approach Lilith will inevitably involve encountering those very same children, at least in the first instance, and it is here that most practitioners are happy to stop.  

Of course, the existence of the incubi and succubi can be explained through purely biological means if one wishes to do so. As with any religion which enforces strict sexual taboos upon its congregation, the Abrahamic obsession with disallowing both masturbation and premarital relations is at odds with one of our deepest animalistic needs. Those who suffered from regular nocturnal emissions would require absolution from the resulting sin, and if the whole event could be reframed as yet another front in the war between good and evil, then all the better. But the role of nonhuman entities in such matters cannot be completely disproven, nor should the possibility of said repression creating tulpas who would go on to feed in a similar way to Lilith and her children be discounted either.

Though some sources claim that incubi are male and succubi female, in truth, both may in fact be the same spirit and therefore genderfluid, at least from a human point of view. Indeed, some scholars cite these entities as guilty of first stealing semen from sleeping men before impregnating young women with it elsewhere in the same night.

This also seems to infer that just being carried within one of Lilith’s children was enough to taint this seed, and allow yet another demonic influence into the world. Such children, or cambions, would be destined for either greatness or disaster, depending on the time period in which the congress occurred. Luminaries such as Merlin, Martin Luther, and even Plato were supposedly sired in such a way, though to what extent otherworldly blood actually flowed within their veins remains in question.

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Conclusion

While the actual methodology involved in working with such a pantheon of inhuman spirits will be covered in my companion article, “Approaching Lilith,” it is worth noting the intense effort required to contact and begin a relationship with this most mercurial of goddesses in the first place.

Lilith is not simply the head of a supernatural escort agency, and her interests do not end with sexual matters. Hers is the cold caress of anarchic rebellion coupled with the warm touch of unchecked passion, as well as a Promethean desire for recognition and change.

Like her offspring, Lilith’s sexuality is in flux, a fact that should speak to those who have found comfort by being blatantly honest about the needs of their own flesh, and to follow in the footsteps of the first monster is to be forever out of step with perceived normality.

Image credits: Vera Kratochvil, Jason Bornemanfs999

2 COMMENTS

  1. I am drawn to Lilith as an archetype, akin to Babalon in Thelema, more than I am to any actual historical or mythological significance. As a heterosexual man who had a terrible relationship with his mother, I understand my magnetism to strong, beautiful and intelligent women. More than that, however, is the attraction to the trait of rebel. Invariably my female friends growing up were pagans, witches mostly, who had a keen understanding of and ability to separate themselves from sexuality, and instead when confronted by aggressive men would drawn upon their Lilith and exhibit power, strength of will, and assert their strength to overcome whomever was trying to oppress them. Quite the opposite of what some who have colored Lilith would expect. I would be very comfortable calling upon Lilith myself in times of trial when I need that strong female perspective I could not lean upon as a child. For to me, in Lilith (and in Babalon) sexuality is a minor aspect of this magical being; she is the maiden, she is the mother, she is the crone and the sea, sky, blood and moon (nod to Wendy Rule). I look forward to more of your experience with Lilith.

  2. Adam and Eve have nothing to do with the fake Bible but more to do with the Dracos and them messing around with the DNA of the blacks, who were the original dark magicians (voodoo) and the Lilith they worship. They were trying to cut it out of their DNA which was successful but had to be in place for a certain period of time but someone made sure that didn’t take place. The blacks, who knew that the aryans,(being a group of white magicians, not meaning they were all white) were the only ones who had magic strong enough to stop them, broke a cosmic law and reproduced with the aryans hoping their offspring would have the magic of both so that they could defeat the aryans. This is where the greys came from was the offspring .

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